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I'm probably gonna rock your world. . .

Come on baby, come on girl
Lemme rock your world
I'm probably gonna rock your world
I said come on baby (come on, come on, come on, come on)
Come on girl
Lemme rock your world
I'm probably gonna rock your world

Have you had invitations from people to rock your world?  There are usually two types of suitors when it comes to this type of invitation: 1) The type who tell you they will most probably rock your world, and then don't! and 2) The type who don't say it at all and they most likely, most probably rock your world. What does someone need to do in order to coax you?  Are you able to be easily persuaded?  If you have the gift of the gab, you could probably talk the pants off a stripper, but what if you are on the receiving end?  What if you don't know that what he's offering is what you're looking for?  He might be trying to find out so much about what makes you tick, what you're into so that he can go beyond all of that - and rock your world for you.

So come baby, I've been lonely lately
So come on, hold me
And let's make a baby
I'm callin' my lady girl, I'm callin' my lady
Don't be shady, don't be shady girl

When someone tells you that they will show you new things in your world, they try to reassure you that they understand your world better than you do, that they can understand what makes your world spin.  They might be full of comparisons and that's ok because that's how people make connections with you and try to share some common ground about universal truths.  When he starts to reveal his feelings to you, especially his emotions about you, it is time to finally sit up and take notice.  But what are you trying to pay attention to?  Is he being really clear about what he is saying, or are you left reading between the lines?  You might still be trying to figure out where you fit into all of this and whether you want to be as candid, whether to reveal that you too have been feeling a little lonely lately, until he started paying attention to you as a person, as a woman, as a girl, a lady, whatever he calls you.



Lord knows I need you girl
'Cause the hole in my heart could fill the world
So come on baby, come on now
I was high as a kite
But like the Price Is Right, I'm comin' down
Girl I'm comin', I'm comin' for you
And by the end of the night you're gonna be comin' too
Uh, I said girl I'm comin'
Comin' for you
And by the end of the night you're gonna be comin' too

The hole in his heart may not visible if he hides it.  If he chooses to reveal his heart to you then objects may appear larger than normal - but that's because he's trying to show you how much pain and trauma he has been through to come out the other side.

I have been connecting with people here and there.  People from my past who I know but don't really know.  It has been really great to be in contact again and to talk to each other as adults and being open about things that people should be open about in life.  One friend even suggested that I blog about it - not knowing that I already have a blog lol.  He follows me on other social media platforms but didn't know that I have my own blog on blogger.

There are lessons in love that I have been learning lately (the art of love?) and the lessons have not been your usual run of the mill lessons.  I have had to really wake up to myself and have a think about how I process my feelings, whether I actually let people in on my feelings in the first instance (!) and being real about pain and trauma.  I can't tell you what's coming for me, even if it is someone that shows you rather than tells you, even if it is someone that you don't want to spell it out, but they will have to, otherwise, things aren't clear.  But I guess the big question is - are you going to be there at the end of the night for him to come and get you?

Come on baby, come on girl
Lemme rock your world
I'm probably gonna rock your world
I said come on baby (come on, come on, come on, come on)
Come on girl
Lemme rock your world
I'm probably gonna rock your world

I let go of someone recently who thought he could rock my world (seriously, those were his words and I wasn't really impressed).  But now there are people on the horizon who are showing me how they can rock my world without having to say the phrase - and I'm taking notice.  Whether I decide to reciprocate and rock their world too is a whole other story.  I guess we shall see in the coming days how I am feeling, how things are panning out, what happens happens.  If there are any hesitations that you have about making decisions in your own world, or whether you don't know yet whether to commit to somebody or not, it's time for you to have that chat.  As for me, I think I will just enjoy each day as it comes with people who care about my wellbeing and treat me accordingly.  And if he wants to and I let him then yeah, I just might let him say I'm probably gonna rock your world. . . 

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