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Miss Right. . .

I need the right one with a bright imagination
Someone to talk to, somebody patient
I wanna cold piece
I wanna love sensation
I want the mind first
I'll make the body wait for it (wait for it)
You could be the right one
With a little dedication
Gotta make me follow through
Gotta make me chase it
Oh I wanna stone groove
I wanna love sensation
Someone to hold to
Someone to play with

Trying to make yourself attractive to whoever you want to attract can be easy or hard.  There are a lot of factors that come into play, but at its most basic foundation, quite simply it has a lot to do with the fact that they are either into you or not.  Do you consider yourself a cold piece?  It might be hard to consider yourself a cold piece if you are not confident in yourself about who you are.  I have talked about this a lot with girlfriends and other different types of people in other contexts - where we draw the line between confident and cocky.  Being a cold piece would mean that you are just so in sync with your own amazing self that nothing seems to make you falter, you are unflappable and nothing out of the ordinary can cause you alarm or discomfort.  You might end up being the centre of that stone groove, being the life of the party, adoringly unaware that all eyes are turned on you. 

Cause lately
My whole being
Just wants
What it needs
And I don't mind
(I need it,  I just need, need, need)

Do you know what your whole being needs?  We can often deny ourselves what we need because we are busy trying to fulfil other people's needs in our lives because we feel that this is what we are meant to do.  If you are a parent, then understandably your children come first and you make sure that their needs are met above your own.  If you are a teacher in a classroom, then understandably student safety and welfare, while they are within the walls of your domain is paramount.  If you are in a relationship, then being in tune with what your partner needs from you is something that needs to be compromised or negotiated - particularly if you are intent on being able to provide for each other.  If you are able to disclose to the people that need to hear it, what your needs are, then there should be an opportunity to have your needs met and theirs too, if they want it to be reciprocal.


I want the right one
Car keys and a cake dish
Gotta take (pipe work)
Gotta make me taste it (taste it)
I mean amazing
You want my last name (say it)
Wanna have my baby (say it)
I'll take you all places
I want the world stage
Certified classic
Big planes
Lite package (work)
I've gotta long reach (work, work)
You got that good conversation (work)
You such a cold piece
I wonder if you're taken

At the beginning of the song, we hear about the needs, while in this verse we are introduced to the wants.  Would you be able to share a life with someone who lays out it all on the table?  It makes things easier when you're trying to navigate where you fit into their life.  Of course, you would have to lay out all of your cards on the table too, with all of that good conversation that you have going on. If someone says they have a long reach, are you prepared for such a connection?  Do you have equal parts ambition?  Can you be the cake dish to his car keys?  What stone groove can you create together?  Being able to go on adventures together and explore how you can broaden your worldview and see the world can help with that long reach.  How can you keep it certified classic? 

Cause lately
My whole being
Just wants
What it needs
And I don't mind 
(I need it, 
I just need, need, need)
Say it, say it (I just), I need 

I hope that whoever you're searching for comes to you soon.  When we know for sure what we need, then we should pursue it.  Being honest with yourself about what those are may take a while to articulate.  What comes from within that helps others to see our whole being cannot be ignored.  They can choose to engage with it or not.  The discovery that someone else can uncover within your depths is a magical process and it is no wonder that a list is often constructed to come to terms with what you would like to see in your chosen cold piece.  Maybe we shouldn't think too hard about being a certain type, because as we know labels, especially if they are imposed on us, are often at odds with how we see ourselves.  So get to know yourself better and just know that even if you aren't seen right now, you are definitely Miss Right. . . 

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