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Could it be I'm falling in love. . .

Since I've met you I've begun to feel so strange
Every time I speak your name (that's funny)
You say that you are helpless too
That you don't know what to do

It is always that first time you learn of someone's name or they tell you their name so that you should never forget it. When was the last time you met someone and they clearly annunciated their name to you as they walked away?  Then that moment seems to linger on every time you meet again and you can tell they're struggling to keep it together.  It's interesting to watch all of this play out by the way.  Are you an observant person? If you're not careful you might completely miss it when you don't yet know how to read the signs.  There's just something about when someone says your name in a certain way that you know there is more beyond how they're saying it.  You think that sounds dumb doesn't it?  Well, that just tells me that you're not aware of how people say your name lol.

Each night I pray there will never come a day
When you up and take your love away
Say you feel the same way too and I wonder what 
It is I feel for you

Has someone told you not to take your love away?  You might be in a situation where you have been asked to stay,  You've been asked to hold on a little bit longer to wait for someone to catch up to how you're feeling.  It's very rare to be in sync with someone emotionally speaking, because nobody really develops feelings in a relationship at the same time.  The rate of growth for feelings differs because unless we are completely honest about our feelings, we never really know how we're tracking alongside someone else.  When relationships do come to an end, you might be waiting for someone to break up with you or waiting for a natural demise of things.  When you have to start praying to be able to stay together, it should be time to consider what things are hindering you from being able to stay together.  Then you wouldn't have to wonder how you feel for each other.



Could it be I'm falling in love
Could it be I'm falling in love
Could it be I'm falling in love
With you, with you, with you, with you

When you have to start questioning if you have deeper feelings for someone, it might take some time for you to realise that within yourself.  Then you have to spend time trying to figure out if that piece of information is worth sharing with that person.  Otherwise you run the risk of revealing something that isn't reciprocated.  People try to avoid themselves getting hurt in this way for that very reason - self preservation.  The movies have you believing that telling the truth about your feelings above all else helps you win the heart of the love interest.  Sometimes real life doesn't play out that way and you take the safe route instead.  But I guess you never really know until you try though right?

I don't need all those things that used to bring me joy
You made me such a happy boy
And honey you'll always be the only one for me
Meeting you was my destiny
You can be sure I will never let you down
When you need me I will be around
And darling you'll always be the only one for me

Whatever grand gestures you have up your sleeve or hope that someone else has up their sleeve, just check that everyone has sleeves lol.  How will you know that you have met someone special who makes an impact in your life that you never saw coming?  You don't.  You probably won't realise that until that person is no longer in your life, or you see how much your life has improved since knowing them.  We may go through life never finding "the one" but actually meeting up with "several" who signpost significant times of learning in your life.  What things used to bring you joy?  As much we rely on people to make us happy, we shouldn't really rely on them providing that.  Granted you will find happiness by sharing that joy or happiness with someone else, but just know that it also pays to know for sure, or maybe not, to ask yourself, could it be I'm falling in love. . . 

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